Male.35. 5’3. I go to the gym regularly. Any advice on improving my chances on dating apps and real life from the ladies.

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Be Yourself. Be Respectful and have manners. Be Honest. Be empathetic.

Sounds simple but you have no idea how many weirdos are on this earth lol

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Women are just going to ask you to show them pictures. Unfortunately for us men, there are a lot of things we can’t change, regardless if we go to the gym and are in super shape.

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We’ll leave the women to do that.

Let trusted friends/family know you are looking. I think relationships are a bit more successful when there is a mutual person introducing the couple to each other.

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That’s why I said trusted. Not every family member or friend would be a candidate for a good matchmaker. It’s sort of a vetting process when there is a mutual.

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Be really mindful and put thought into your profile. Use it to let women into your interior world.

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Join seeking arrangement.

Women there actually give you a chance to go on a date. A guy only needs the chance to be interviewed in order for him to get the job. Nowadays on normal dating apps, you can’t even get that.

Seeking Arrangement is to find a sugar baby. Not a serious, committed relationship and real love. There’s no shame in a consensual, mutually beneficial arrangement. But thats is not a romantic relationship, which is what I assume OP is looking for

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Work on your self-confidence and know what you have to offer women. Be honest about your height, but don't draw attention to it. And if you're able to filter by height, look for anyone 5'5" and below.

Omg! I love this advice so much! I noticed a lot of men lie about their height and I can't comprehend why!

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