How do you turn off the adversarial switch when you’re just trying to be a normal member of your community? There is nothing more humbling/annoying than using your $500/hour skills to argue over a $200 discrepancy in your own backyard while your neighbors watch. I caught myself using my courtroom voice on the town clerk and immediately felt like the biggest jerk in the area.

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Maybe treat the person like a judge, instead of OppCo.

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Honestly as a woman I’m always already watching my tone and monitoring my delivery to make sure I’m not coming across strident.

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