How long should you wait to meet irl from the apps? I feel like too soon might give dtf vibes.. and should you take it slow if you’re seeking a long term relationship?

For those of you in your mid-20’s, how often do you go on dates with your significant other? In a serious relationship for the first time since college and trying to gauge what folks consider normal for dating frequency (excluding nights in). Context - we’re 25, dating for 3 months, live 5 mins away from each other, decent WLB

Lockdown makes it hard to date

What do you irrationally and harshly judge people for?

I assume that people who don’t rerack their weights at the gym allow themselves to live in filth and squalor and had their mothers wipe their bums until they were in middle school.

I know it isn’t late, yet. Does anyone want to chat with a 35+ F🐠?

Being said, there are just very 'few' members for Chennai location and apparently don't have their team members from Chennai, I thought it'd be amazing to have a meet up - for making friends, and network so we feel less lonely. Any thoughts and suggestions?

Is it irrational for me to get an “ick” for this?

I went on a “date” recently. I paid for the tab as they were going to the bathroom. As we were leaving they said “thanks for lunch” — I was hoping they’d at least ask to Venmo me half as a kind gesture. Following lunch we grabbed dessert. I was hoping they’d offer to cover dessert since I covered lunch but it didn’t happen.

I am fine w/ paying but I was hoping the gesture would at least be presented… am I crazy?

How do you manage to find someone to date 🥹

Actual friends with co workers?

Best part about being single: Not having to hold in my gas ! What is the best part of it for you??

Happy Mother’s Day! How can employers better accommodate working parents?

Any F from Ny metro? 34 M here

Who here is single and gay?

My wife surprised me last night for my 30th bday (which was last week) with a get together with my closest friends I have known since middle school. Most of them live out of state with kids and somehow it all worked out. Feeling really loved.

After everyone gets vaccinated, thinking of starting a desi singles meet up. Details will be shared later. Who’s in?

On a scale of 1 - 10, what would you rate me as a potential dating prospect?

Age: 40
Gender: male
Occupation: lawyer
Height: 5'11
Weight: 185 lbs
Physique: muscular (benchpress in high 200s)
Salary: 450K
Real Estate: 2M
Smoking: never
Drinking: on occasion
Drugs: none
Other interests: traveling, cooking, smooth jazz, alternative rock, krav maga, and long walks through downtown

What's dating like in SF? New to the area.

Dating. How do you navigate dating attorneys and being a judicial law clerk? Conflicts? Awkwardness?

Been dating for a little over a year, but she hasn’t introduced me to her family yet. I don’t have any plans for thanksgiving this year, and she didn’t invite me to spend the holiday with her family (local). Is it still too early or is it a red flag?

Why can’t my exes leave me alone

Today is my first day back at work (and first full day back in my physical office) after a few weeks off for parental leave. Needless to say, I am struggling to stay focused on anything other than wanting to go back home to my spouse and child.

I know I shouldn't take an emotional temperature on day one, but it has been more difficult being back than I anticipated. Any tips for navigating the waters for the first day/week/month back?

Thoughts on what a reasonable SM salary at EY and Deloitte in human capital in London looks like? Have an offer from D that seems a bit low and going through interviews with EY currently

Can’t tell if I’m developing crushes on my coworkers only because they’re the only people I interact with (on zoom) in quarantine 😬

I love that Trumpies can't decide between 'Biden is a racist' and 'Biden is a leftist, woke uber-liberal'.

This is the kind of mixed messaging you'd expect since MAGA is terrified.

Current REMOTE employees. What virtual team-building activities has your company done to bring everyone together and keep everyone engaged in a virtual setting?

I’m in IT in a large corp and I don’t know what to do. I’m the systems engineer and I planned around what I thought was a straight forward concept. It appears what I thought would be possible was wrong. Everyone celebrated thinking I’d figured it out, including me. Were spinning up a full team to build it and I’ve exhausted all avenues to find an alternative solution. There isn’t. Horrified this is a career limiting situation….

I currently have both of my retirement IRAs in SPY (Roth & Traditional). I rarely ever see anyone here invested in SPY, it's usually a vanguard fund like VOO, VTI, VXX etc. What's you're reasoning behind that, and alternatively if you're in SPY, why?

Anyone else having one of those days where you just can’t seem to do anything right? I’m dropping balls left and right here

Ever since Risk Assurance busy season ended, I feel like I’ve been kind of coasting. I’m still getting all my work done but my utilization is slipping. With CRTs coming up, how worried should I be?

I am about to leave my current organization and I have several thousand in outstanding commission owed to me. It is a start up, so I have little faith in their fulfillment if I am not there to hold them responsible. My contract says I must be paid it within 6 months of separation. How have you all handled situations like this?

Was reached out from an Amazon Recruiter for a Program Manager role. Got past the online assessment and now they are asking for total compensation expectations (inclusive of RSUs, bonuses). Any idea of what is a fair number to put? Especially since the salary is no longer capped. Currently a Senior consultant with 6.5 YOE, making 116K.

When I first got sober, I decided to take myself out of the game because I didn't trust myself. That was almost three years ago, I've been freelance since. Today is my first day back at an agency.

If you were going to be a partner in a national non-big 4 firm, which one would you pick and why?

Any recommendations how to best prepare for CGFM exams? What resources did you use?

Anyone have any leads in mid-level corporate social responsibility roles in LA?

Anyone subletting this summer?

Is it better to rent or buy a car? Can you share as well some price estimates if I rent or buy? TIA!!! 😊

I took a job for a company that is remote, but has an office in Westwood so I'm thinking about moving to LA. Where should I consider living? I'm 28, fairly extroverted and active. I'm looking for places that are balanced in activities, bars, concerts and has some nature. Also would love to live in a newer or updated building if possible

“Every time someone leaves California for Texas, the average intelligence of both states rises.” 😂 just read that in the comments of an online article about CA>TX migration and had to chuckle

Does anyone knows how to contact Footprint Coalition found.??? I am interested in work with them, but there is only a contact by mail if You want to make an economic collaboration... Please, anyone?? Also, I am available for work in LA or remotely...

ATTN: Motorcycle people in LA. Selling my ‘79 Yamaha xs650. New hydraulic clutch. Just got back from the shop and have receipts. Pickup only.

Parking spot - if you’re not going in to the office full time and your office is anywhere near the Wells Fargo center, I’m willing to pay to use your spot. Please message me if of interest.

Has anyone been to concert held at the Sofi Stadium? Wondering if the top is open during the concert. Looked around few videos on YouTube and seems like it's closed.

Any discounts for acquarium of the pacific that anybody knows of?

Anyone have any leads for a sublet in Brentwood area starting in the end of October / early November? Hubs and I are looking to stay in LA for 3 months.

Anyone know a good artist to do portraits? Want to give my SO a surprise anniversary gift

Apartment hunting in LA… having a bit of sticker shock. did everything go up? Will it go down in the fall??

Hello all! So I’m currently a Realtor in LA. Prior to being a Realtor, I was a store manager for a luxury store in Beverly Hills. I was kind of forced to get out of retail when the pandemic hit so my only option at the time was to jump in to real estate as I already had my license. I’ve been feeling unfulfilled with real estate and truly miss luxury retail. Does anyone have any referrals for luxury retail jobs in Los Angeles? I would love to hear from you! Thank you for taking reading my post!

That was a fun little tremor last night...

Any LA companies hiring ex consultants currently? Post below!

My entire neighborhood started yelling Black Lives Matter our their windows at 9pm and it went for like five minutes. Very powerful! Hollywood.

Anyone interested in 2 WILLOW tickets tonight at The Novo? $50/per ticket pleas DM me!

Where to find “real” organic fruit? The organic bananas and apples from Trader Joe’s and Sprouts always makes my mouth itch