I lateraled to a firm (jr associate) about a year ago and it’s honestly not been a great fit. Is negotiating some kind of mutual separation a thing in BigLaw? Feedback hasn’t been great although I’m not on a PIP or anything so I’m thinking they will be just as happy to separate.

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Lateral out. Now.

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It’s so bad it’s impacting my health. I would love website time and severance but would settle for the website time.

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Thanks for this! I was doing well at my last firm and this has broken my confidence. You deserve the “Coach” title!

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What are you looking for-- severance pay or website time? It's very unlikely, unless they bring it up first.

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Why not just lateral or do you want time to go in house? Just quiet quit

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