I like software engineering, but I’m finding the engineering atmosphere draining, the pedantic corrections, the pressure to sound perfect, the constant proving yourself vibe.
Is this normal at mid-level?
How have other women navigated this phase? Sometimes I feel like quitting engineering…

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Honestly, I think this is an issue specific to women in the industry. I don't think men go around policing each other as much as we seem to get. At least, that's been my experience based on the conversations I've had with my male colleagues. I feel like we have to work twice as hard to prove ourselves and show that we didn't just get here because of preferential treatment, or something.

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