I walked into this week feeling behind before it even started. Nothing specific happened. Just that quiet sense that everyone else is moving faster. I know progress is not a race, but some Mondays it feels like one. How do you reset when comparison creeps in?

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Put blinders on. Focus solely on what YOU need to get done this day, week, month, year. Whenever you start thinking about what so and so is up to, stop and remind yourself they are not your competition. You are. All you should be thinking about is how you stack up against last year's version of you.

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I just try to concentrate on what I can get done. It's always possible to compare myself to people around me, and I've learned that doesn't serve any positive purpose. It's just distraction, and usually that's the last thing I need.

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