It's my first year in this job. Please tell me it gets better.

I won't give you any fluff.
Whether it's your first year or your 20th, this job can be hard. Especially if you're in an environment that isn't very supportive. However, the job can get better, and you can find ways to make it work for you.
Sometimes we have to assess ourselves and see what we can shift to make our day to day easier or more tenable. No, I don't mean go all Mary Poppins and shove it down with a spoon full of sugar. I mean, take a moment, assess the environment, decide what you can control, and shift your approach and your mindset.
There will still be tough days, but you can get it to a better percentage. Like...5% 'education is a dumpster fire', 5% 'well, the classroom is still intact' and 90% 'It ain't always easy. I ain't always perfect, but I got this.'

Also, if you feel like you're in a seriously toxic environment, do your best to get out of there. Good luck and don't be afraid to lean on your fellow teachers.

I'd love to hear how it's going after a few months.

Teaching is tough. The first couple years I felt like a fraud. You don’t know the lingo, policies, curriculum, and staff. I would encourage you to ask your colleagues questions. Don’t do it the hard way like I did. After almost three decades in teaching I can tell you the following:
1. Every year you get different kids and issues.
2. You’ll have at least 1-2 crazy parents a year.
3. You’ll become more familiar with the “ebb and flow” of your building.
4. You’ll know more teacher “speak.”
5. Time management will become easier.
6. You’ll learn not to reinvent the wheel.
7. You’ll be able to talk with parents with more authority and confidence.
8. You’ll learn to wait 24 hours to an email that ticks you off. (Hardest but best lesson.)
9. You’ll learn that the extra time you put in for the kids benefit is always worth it.
10. You’ll learn you can’t polish a turd.
11. You’ll learn that most principals don’t know what the hell they’re talking about.
12. You’ll make friends in your colleagues that will last a lifetime.
13. You’ll learn that the last school day of the year really is the best day, and you’ll be more excited than the kids are.
14. You’ll learn that you can impact many lives.
15. You’ll learn how to make materials you need appear.
16. You’ll learn that there are many parents are willing to help; you just have to ask.
17. You’ll learn the reason you cry at their yearly band, choir, and orchestra concerts is because you do really care about them.
18. You’ll learn that while the pay is not where it should be, the rewards are immense.
19. You’ll learn that the kids really are the best part of the job.

Well, Kids are tough today! Parents want you to raise their child but don’t want you to help them behave! Admin. is iffy at best! Keep a positive attitude and try and win the small battles and maybe you can win the war! Best of Luck!

I’m in my 25th year and I wouldn’t say it gets better … it gets different… it’s a labor of love .

I’m not sure if the job gets easier but you get more experience and better able to handle situations! Next year you’ll know your curriculum better and you’ll have a better handle on where kids are, where they’re supposed to be, and where they’re going! With that being said - my curriculum changes without fail every few years so anytime that happens I feel a little like a first year teacher again re learning everything! This job is hard and I don’t think anyone is ever perfect! Do what you can and make sure you always put your own oxygen mask on first!

Year #39 for me. Year 1 is always a huge learning curve- so many things I didn’t know that I do now. Each year is different based on the students, personalities, staff, and administration. I can look back at each year, find positives and frustrations that I had, but mostly the memories of the students and their successes and growth come to mind. Remember your ‘Why’

I’ve been teaching for 45 years and I’ve never had the same class twice. I agree with some of the other posts: it gets different.

I've been in the school system since 1989. It has changed a lot. I'm counting the years down only 3 more after this year. Gosh, does that sound weird, counting the years down?

It’s always going to be a tough job. This year seems more difficult. It ebbs and flows depending on a lot of factors. Mainly it gets different but you get stronger and more confident

Parts get better, parts get worse. It changes, you change.

Mostly it's unpredictable. Twenty plus years ago we didn't really anticipate smart phones, zoom PD, Google Classroom...

The middle grades are some of the roughest! Don’t know if it gets better, but you learn to adapt and overcome! (Hopefully)

The sooner you find some mentors the sooner you will find things out.

You will have good years and bad! I feel it's worth it. I love teaching. I live to see the light in my students' eyes when they "get it." If teaching is for you, you will find joy in it. It's challenging. It's a lot sometimes. I wish you the best! Find someone with positive vibes. ✨️

What is most troubling at this time?
Why were you motivated to enter the profession?
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There are veteran teachers who remain after decades.
The teacher departure rate escalated after Covid and rapidly continues. (Teachers were departing before Covid at a slower rate).

It doesn’t get better. But hopefully you develop a sense of humor in your mind when the students are doing ridiculous things. I’m in my 21st year. It’s hard. But being an old second career teacher I find it fun. Get to know the kids. Develop relationships with those that you can. Be patient. Understand that these students will be using technology to do the things that you want them to do with paper and pencil. Realize that you want them to learn to solve problems, not multi-step equations. They will never create a graph by hand outside of your classroom. Think about what they need to learn to survive after high school.

Every year I learn something about my craft that makes it easier to manage. The first few years are all about learning to work smarter and about how to manage your classroom without losing your mind. Every year you will have students who challenge you - both positively and negatively. The same goes for parents, peers, and admin.
I will say this: stressing over what you can’t control is not productive. Focus on your craft and student relationships and don’t be afraid to seek advice or help. Admit when you screw up and make changes from there.
There will never be a time when you’ll say, “I know all of this. I’m good.” Embrace that and be a lifelong learner of education.
The first time a former student contacts you and says, “Thank you,” you’ll understand why it’s all worth it. But it’s not for everyone. You know yourself: if your mental health can’t deal with all of this, and it’s a lot, there’s no shame in going a different direction.

Are you reinventing the wheel or something? Do you need pdfs of guided notes packets? I can send you all of mine!

Across the board, the first year of teaching completely sucks. It's sort of like the first year of parenting except nobody wants to babysit your kids and they're not quite as adorable because you didn't make them.

But my number one tip for teaching middle school is to treat them like you would treat any other human. Be authentic, honest, and when you make mistakes or misjudge a situation regarding a student make sure you apologize to the student.

One thing that helps me when I feel frustrated about student behavior is to remember that you can't control what happens outside your classroom. So if your students are spoiled at home or just not parented at all, It doesn't do any good to get angry about it because you can't change it. But you can decide how things are going to go in your classroom. And if the students aren't behaving correctly, it really helps to approach it from the frame of mind that they don't no the rules for your classroom. Sort of like when you go to a new person's house and you have to learn the rules of that house.

I didn't want it to get easier. I wanted to get better at it.