I've been seeing this guy for a few months now, and he is for sure the best guy I've gone out with in years - caring, fun, attentive, handsome, and just really fun to hang around with. I imagine I'd be very happy growing old with him.

But I keep thirsting after guys in clubs/IG/work?? Will this ever stop blergh

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Relationships take commitment. It’s not just fun and easy. Sorry to be harsh, but I think your post is emblematic of most gay men who are always complaining about never having meaningful relationships. You need to put the work in to do that.

It’s ok to be attracted to other men. But “thirsting after” and pursuing them takes discipline and commitment to your partner.

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The way I know I’m in love is if I feel sad when I have sex with someone else/cheat. The only way to really know is to go astray and test the waters. If you feel guilty, he’s the one for you ✌🏻❤️

G1, it’s not a joke if you know L1 😀

Do you have any self control?

There will always be better ones. Consider lease versus buy arrangement until you grow old enough that no one would want to be in a lease arrangement.

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Big difference between "attracted to" and "thirsting". So much so, that depending on which you're doing, will likely make or break the relationship

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