Last night I told my husband that I was thinking about getting my hair cut shorter - not short, but shorter - and wanted his opinion. He said “it’s your hair so it’s up to you.” While I appreciate his “your body, your choice” stance in theory, in practical terms, I wanted some actual thoughts by the person who sees my face every day on whether I should change my hair. Does he a) not want me to cut hair, b) want it to stay long but won’t say it, or c) not really care?

Working in IT now for the past 10 years as an office systems Admin on €42k. Is this the going rate for IT Systems Admin, essentially all IT functions.

Anyone want to plan alt travel for the weekend of 18-22 July?

What are your recs for groom gift(s) for a 30 y/o finance VP? This gift(s) will be coming from a group of his closest friends.

Hey fellow ADHD professionals. Struggling with my focus and memory/retention. I takes notes, make lists, and this helps with getting tasks completed. But, for example, I cant recall someones name that was just given to me, or the name of a place. Any suggestions?

Btw this group is awesome!!

Ritz Geneva at 50k points for 1 night! Worth it you think?

Does BofA provide free access to use udemy/pluralsight courses??

What’s the A/S/L of Fs in here? Better yet, any Fs in the Charlotte/NC area in here?

Is there such thing as making healthy pasty? I’m getting whole grain pasta but getting healthy sauce is the hard part. Any recs?

Anyone know of any open positions in D/FW? 8 YOE on the agency side, masters degree in public administration. Looking to go client side to do Corp comms/public affairs. Any leads welcome!

Roche has opened many roles in hyd. They are establishing their pharma analytics division. All the best guys 😂

3 YOE in M&A consulting. Interested in education consulting for high school and higher ed. No idea if this is a feasible path.

Any firms I should look at? NYC based.

Also - is the salary for these types of jobs significantly less than management consulting?

Anyone in NYC looking for an Associate Strategist? Asking for my mentee, she has 2 years ad tech start up experience.

Anyone looking for a senior-level writer with everything from social to broadcast?

Anyone looking for a UX writer/content designer? I’m a CW trying to transition to a more UX-heavy role, but I’ve done some UX stuff like website copy, landing pages, emails, and metacopy.

Hi all… I’ve been working for a bit and have just been pocketing all extra savings - I’ve accumulated roughly 50k which I’m super proud of and grateful for. i don’t have any investments yet, but I heard selling puts is a great way to make passive income. any advice on this and suggestions on what to do with maybe 30k out of the 50k??

Anybody here have a Canon R and thinking about the R6 Mk 2? I'm debating. Biggest negative for me is the drop from the 30 mp sensor down to the 24 mp sensor. I don't do alot of "action" photography so many of the enhanced R6 features won't get used alot. I don't do video.

I think ISO is better in the R6 Mk 2. I do miss the joystick on my old 7D. IS seems greatly improved.

Is this just FOMO? As a hobbyist who shoots primarily landscapes, is this an upgrade I need?

Time to hire—I've seen dozens of fledgling lists/databases of available creative talent & diverse talent. Which ones are people actually using?

I'm in my bag:(. Is there anyone I can DM for relationship advice? It's a long story. (BlackF26) for context.

I’m afraid I’m emotionally unavailable and that by the time I figure out how to be emotionally available I’ll have lost the good guy I’m currently with. I love this guy with my head but not my heart. But also my heart feels dead in general so 🫠. I’m already in therapy. What if this is as far as I can go in terms of emotional capacity? I am stressed.

That is all.

Fellas, what’s your go to dating app? And what do you use it for? For example hook ups.

My mom says to marry a man who loves me, not a man who I love. Happily married wives: thoughts?

M 🐠 here. I work in finance and my job is so technical and intense I'm attracted to women who are airheady and ditsy

Not sure if this is a good thing

Steak dinner at a nice restaurant...or Chinese takeout tonight? Solo for both...

Looking to purchase a record player. Anyone have any suggestions?

I went to a networking event today, but deep down I want to marry a prince/ trust fund only child and be a stay at home TikTok wife/mum .

Might jump right in and enroll in very expensive bjj classes today. Any F 🐠 already practicing? Advice/words of encouragement for a newbie?

My friend’s dad was a firefighter during 9/11 who died very young because of lung cancer. He was one of those who were denied coverage. She was just having a really hard time this week. Her boss knows this and told her last Friday with a straight face that she’s sulking. Some of these VC people man.

What do you irrationally and harshly judge people for?

I assume that people who don’t rerack their weights at the gym allow themselves to live in filth and squalor and had their mothers wipe their bums until they were in middle school.

Found out my SO hooked up with 2 people in one night at a bar a month before we agreed to be exclusive. I don’t really have a right to be mad but I admit am a little grossed out by this knowledge. Fishes: how would you feel about this?

My uncle I met a week ago suddenly died. He hid his heart condition from his wife, my aunt. He was having tea in the morning when he had a stroke. She did not have a last word or consider the possibility that he’d pass away so suddenly and soon. She is beating herself up over how he left and they didn’t have a chance to talk that morning. Fishes, sharing this so you call your loved ones today and not take people for granted.

I have a friend from another country coming to visit the US, they are working to get their tourist visa and have their interview scheduled. My friend is asking for a copy of my id for the interview. Is this normal, or an immediate red flag?

How can a i do a pic reverse search on my mobile?

Has anybody working in ubs worked from India being a ux designer. Is there a trick to it

Staying downtown Columbus Hilton for my wife’s job conference and we have to use valet parking since I need to use my car to go to work every day. $40 a day, how much do I tip and is it when I drop my car off and when they bring it to me in the morning?

Me and my partner are not sure whether we want to have kids . Sometimes we want to and the next day we are completely against the idea . The reason we want to have kids is that we want to grow our inner circle , have more people in this world who we can call our family. And we don’t want to have kids is that it will put extra pressure on us , less freedom for next 10-15 years. Wanted to understand why people have kids or don’t have kids . Please share your thoughts :)

The Longest Yard is Rob Schneider’s best movie.