Last night I told my husband that I was thinking about getting my hair cut shorter - not short, but shorter - and wanted his opinion. He said “it’s your hair so it’s up to you.” While I appreciate his “your body, your choice” stance in theory, in practical terms, I wanted some actual thoughts by the person who sees my face every day on whether I should change my hair. Does he a) not want me to cut hair, b) want it to stay long but won’t say it, or c) not really care?

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C) doesn’t really care and will find your attractive regardless is my thought

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You should try wearing a short wig to see if he notice the different.

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That’s a brilliant idea!

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I think most men have a hard time picturing/imagining us in a different hairstyle. He probably would do better if you showed him a picture of you with two different hairstyles (there are apps and websites that do this)

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I showed him the picture I posted above and he really liked it so I think you nailed it with your answer.

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To the husband - it’s a trap!

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I’m sure you’re lovely no matter the do. Make sure he compliments whatever you end up with. If he doesn’t, then he’s probably not making the rest of us look good.

How do you make sure of admiration? Force it out?

How about you do it for yourself and not for him? He seems not to care (will find you attractive anyways)

He doesn’t have a strong opinion and you should be OK with that.

Post pics here. We’ll tell you.

Thanks!! I have my appointment this evening so excited now that I have a few images saved to show my stylist.

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I think c. My husband wouldn’t care.

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