Found out my SO hooked up with 2 people in one night at a bar a month before we agreed to be exclusive. I don’t really have a right to be mad but I admit am a little grossed out by this knowledge. Fishes: how would you feel about this?

My date won’t share his playlist with me (I can listen to it but he won’t share it). Just curious, is playlist a big deal to guys? We are both at early 20s and only dated for a week

Finance guys - Need some insight.

What firm are you at and what are your hours like? I’m mutually exclusive with a guy who’s a VP at a prominent firm. He’s been very low communication lately and says it’s work.

I really don’t have the emotional headspace to be cheated on again 😞 I’m finally dating someone I really like after getting out of a bad relationship a year ago.

Be nice, thanks in advance!!

Any desi f looking for a white knight to save her from an arranged marriage?

I can find women interested in relationships, but can't find anything casual.

26 F. Going a little stir crazy. Please feel free to swan dive into my dms.

Thoughts on serial dating, via social media apps?

Seems like there’s a few 30+ females in this bowl. Lmk if you are ever down for a brunch or dinner. I could use some gal pals 💃🏻

Need advice. Very Shy guy and girl, met a while back for a side hustle both like each other a LOT, relationship has progressed in other areas but not in the physical realm, primarily because neither officially asked the other out. Guy is a very rough around edges, asked for a date by saying ‘anytime you need breakfast or lunch, let me know’. I am an independent gal and didn’t like the way it came across. I really want to take this forward but am out of ideas on how to make a date happen.

Can’t tell if I’m developing crushes on my coworkers only because they’re the only people I interact with (on zoom) in quarantine 😬

What is the best way to attract a new mate? I got out of a 7 year relationship (he was cheating on me for half of it) and I’m so confused on where to even start. I have a therapist and working on my trust issues - but I have self confidence issues. I’ve been burned for being ‘unattractive’. But I’ve seen girls that are objectively more unattractive than me have mates. So it must be a confidence issue? Those girls seem to glow while I am so sad. Or it’s the guys I go on dates with?

Any female fish in the nyc area like dating guys 35+?

26M looking for F in the Chicago area

Anyone up for a chat? M here looking for M 😛

Guys, When you match/accept requests/ start talking to a girl and go MIA is it becoz you have multiple options? Would the world be not better if you just said yes or no and close the convo instead of

Woman I went on one date with keeps me informed on what she's doing. I.e. Seeing her girlfriend or on her way to a birthday party. Not used to this level of transparency after just one date. We do have a second date planned. Thoughts?

Joined a young start-up with a pretty fratty culture (it's all dudes). Want to build relationships but need to change things- the vibe is turning off prospective hires. Not sure how to start

Hello! I’ve previously only dated white guys. While in quarantine I’ve gone on dil mil and made an effort with brown guys on apps. Surprised to find that many live at home or visit home often in mid 20s, are not financially independent, cannot cook for themselves etc. Is this typical? Or maybe it’s just the area I live in. Sorry if this came off as offensive, it just seems to be a pattern I noticed

30 yo gent here... I need to start going on dates with people who travel more ... this going on dates with people in the same city every week has been a big of a struggle. Anyone single!?

Bored on a Sunday night, any female fish feel like chatting

Haven’t done the dating thing in a while so need advice! (F here) Met a guy at a party on Sat, followed each other on insta, then I dm’ed him my number saying “lmk if you want to get drinks sometime”. He then texts me and says something along the lines of “yeah let’s do it” but doesn’t offer any concrete plan. Does this mean he’s not super into it? Or am I overreacting and I should initiate the plan? I initiated the insta follow and the dm so I feel like it’s his turn…?

How can we get job in European market being from development background, and having 6+ yr of exp

For a UX designer with YOE as 2.8 years. What are really good companies to work in? Good for career growth and also work life balance?

A lot of higher ups in industry have had some big four experiences. What do you think we learn at big four that sets us up for success?

Hey! Anyone have any rental apartment/building recommendations in D.C. (1 bedroom)? Also open to Silver Spring. $1600 budget but open to going a bit higher.

Looking to apply to Google but I have a security clearance I want to use. Where can I find out about roles that utilize one?

New to city, looking for good restaurant recommendations please.

Told a friend of mine in tech I was considering moving to BCG. He asked me if I would have to move to Boston.

I followed up by asking what he thought the top consulting firms were. "I'd guess PwC and then McKinsey are the best. I've also heard of KPMG, Deloitte, and Bain, but I don't know much about them."

Just a reminder that outside our bubble no-one really cares about firm prestige etc.

Could anyone here working at Wells Fargo refer me for the below position.
Job code 67350BR

Technology Systems Operations Engineer

Hyderabad

India.

Is 80k cash + 20k company share a good deal for a junior dev role in the bay area?🙏

Couldn’t believe this bowl didn’t exist. Well here we go.

We have 5 attorneys (3 partners; 2 associates). Senior associate (who is being promoted to non-equity partner) is pregnant. We don’t have any sort of maternity policy but she will have 3 weeks of PTO to cash in. How do other firms handle cost of insurance premiums while ee is out? We currently cover ee portion and she pays for 100% of dependent cost. Is it reasonable to ask her to write check back to firm for her portion of dependent premiums? Assume she is taking full 4 mos off.

Feeling hopeless and alone at work

Hey there! Can anyone give me a referral for Microsoft? Would be highly appreciated! ❤️

Wanted to get your advice/thoughts.

I'm a non-traditional CD analyst working in a niche industry (gambling)

My experience is as follows: BIG4 Audit > FP&A (CPG) > CD analyst (1 year)

I like my role (sourcing, modelling and strategy integration), however I don't see myself working in this industry long term. Without a generalist IB background, are my chances of transitioning over to a different Industry low? If so, is there anything I can learn or do (excluding IB)?

Thanks

When is bonus being paid out in December?

Hi, will be staying in London next week. Does anyone have an Accenture rate code for the Marriot / Hilton in London?

What would be a good offer for a veterinary nurse with 8 years of experience, I am currently looking for a new job and I have already received two offers where the payment is very similar. I would like to know how other colleagues would assess me to see if I can negotiate my pay or not.

When Continnum BA, Chennai office is planning to call staff office who is currently WFH ?

Watching Thor Bradley chop wood and talk dirty to tree stumps on Tiktok has me down astronomically 🥵🥵🥵 I too wish to leave thirsty comments like "you could split me open with just one try" on his videos lol like men on Tiktok have really mastered the art of thirst traps from the female gaze

Idk who needs to hear this, but…

Just because someone disagrees with your perspective, it does not automatically mean they’re gaslighting you.

Can I ask a cop to stay outside my door if I feel threatened at home?

I sacrificed my health to achieve some major professional accomplishments, gaining significant weight along the way.

Now I feel like my weight is impacting my perception, despite my outstanding experience and credentials. FML.

I can find women interested in relationships, but can't find anything casual.

I have a job interview today that I’m actually nervous about. That’s a good sign right? All my other ones I was dreading or just wanted to skip. I’ve only been jobless for 2 weeks - I would like more time, but this is a company and boss that we’ve been dancing around each other for about a year. And they have a position open at the same time I need a job.

I don’t get the hype about the new Spider-Man movie. Yes, it’s a good one, but why do people think it’s the best one yet? Am I missing something?

Book recommendations, fishies? Looking for something light, but intellectually engaging—a satire, maybe? Or anything really engrossing! Please help ya chiefy, thank youuuu🤗😘

I hurt. I feel like I can never do enough to get ahead. Can't seem to land a new job to make enough money to survive. And as a man whenever I talk to someone about how I'm feeling all I get is, "Welcome to being a husband and father!" Every 1 step forward I try and take i get pushed 2 steps back. Feeling incapable.

Pretty new here! Great news ..JOB offer …however the company is lowballing salary ..I informed recruiter Amount was not acceptable …sent off the salary requirement letter …. Nail biting ..Why waste my time again …she didn’t know the budget… so we proceeded forward, her reply ..advised me to talk w hiring team but in final interview there was no opportunity to speak abt salary w hiring team ….Have to say I enjoy the posts & it’s a decent networking site!!

Teeny confession/victory, but today I successfully folded hospital corners for the first time...at the age of twenty seven, I’m finally on par with an eight year old at bed making skills.

Is there an online auction or store-like site where I can buy lost luggage at rock-bottom prices, so I could buy a high-end suitcase cheaper than retail?

Me and my partner are not sure whether we want to have kids . Sometimes we want to and the next day we are completely against the idea . The reason we want to have kids is that we want to grow our inner circle , have more people in this world who we can call our family. And we don’t want to have kids is that it will put extra pressure on us , less freedom for next 10-15 years. Wanted to understand why people have kids or don’t have kids . Please share your thoughts :)

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Grinder is so much more convenient for hookups. Anything similar for straight men?

Moving to NYC Soon and I’m scared. What if I can’t meet new people ☹️?

Looking to purchase a record player. Anyone have any suggestions?

Amber Heard is a bad actress, and an even worse liar.

Cons of being large chested it is impossible to find a cute swimsuit top that doesn't make me look saggy...anyone have any recs? I've already wasted so much money trying to find a cute one.