Lateraling to a new firm and will be truly RTO for the first time since I was literally a first year (went almost fully remote during 2020 and just never ended up going back in). Having massive anxiety about having to be in front of people again on top of the typical anxiety about starting all over again at a new firm (I've never lateraled before). I know I should be medicated or at least in therapy but it's never worked out for me before 🙃

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You should probably talk with someone about social anxiety. It seems like for Biglaw it’s becoming more remote. And hey, we make a ton of money so we can afford that!

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Beta blockers. Godspeed

Bad decision tbh. I’m full time in office with anxiety and it’s just awful

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