My girlfriend works in branded content. She is out having dinner with the production crew after they wrap eating dinner. She makes a comment how she wished she brought her swimsuit to go swimming cont

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The producer says ‘well what underwear are you wearing’. She told me it makes her feel uncomfortable. I told her she needs to pull the producer aside and speak to him privately about how that comment made her feel uncomfortable. Understanding it was meant to be light hearted but she doesn’t talk about his underwear in a room full of female colleagues/peers. Anyone have any thoughts ?

If a guy asked a guy what boxers he was wearing nobody would bat an eye. It’s a semi reasonable question. Different “underwear” allows you to swim more or less casually. But I get the sexual harassment side of it. I highly doubt the original comment was meant to be sexually suggestive but a casual side comment wouldn’t hurt!

If she already mentioned she had a suit, asking about underwear is entirely inappropriate. Honestly, it’s not appropriate anytime. But especially when it’s already clear she’s got appropriate swim wear.

Side note: I have never wanted to be in a swim suit around my work team, but that’s just me.

He’s asking because he wants her to describe what she’s wearing under her clothes right now. In no professional non-sex work environment is that cool.

However. Now that it’s happened she can talk to him about it, but it’s only going to make their working relationship more awkward. And potentially have him resent her. So it’s her personal choice as to what she’s comfortable with. Mine would be to let this slide, keep him at arms length and say something the next time it occurs.

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