This Ted Talk on being nice at work caught my attention. I often feel like I’m being too nice, and I hate it. A lot of it comes from trauma of being call “difficult” at work when I was simply standing up for myself and my team. I don’t care if my colleagues “like” me but the respect is important. Have you ever had to deal with this at work? Or felt like you were being too nice?
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I don’t act nice at all. If I don’t like you I don’t pretend. It’s probably only worked against me recently and I probably should be nicer but I don’t have it in me with some of my colleagues
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I have a few colleagues that I’m the same with. We don’t have to be friends and will never be friends. I keep it professional and keep it moving. As I’ve moved up the ladder it’s become a bit harder to stay that way, but I try.
It’s so frustrating when standing up for yourself gets labeled as being "difficult." I've definitely had moments where I felt like I was being too nice just to keep the peace, but I've learned that setting boundaries and demanding respect doesn’t mean you're being overly nice, it’s just being professional. I think you get better at it the more you practice.
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That’s very true. I’ve become better at it over time and I especially set standards and boundaries for my team. They get pushed, but over time they’ve been respected as well. Just had to take a lot of practice and gentle reminders