Thoughts on uneven bridal parties? I would have 5 vs my fiancé having 3 people.

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I think they’re fine! We’re doing (small) mixed size and mixed gender (2 for me and 4 on fiancé’s side). Because the parties are both small, we’re having each person process individually down the aisle, so the uneven numbers won’t matter there either.

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I had uneven! Only by 1 but it wasn’t too noticeable. People act like it’s a big deal but it’s not

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We wound up having one less bridesmaid and just had two guys walk the maid of honor up the aisle during the recessional. Same thing happened in a wedding I was in last week. It still looked great!

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Thank you for all of your help!! It’ll definitely be uneven by 1 or 2.

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he’s worried about how uneven it will look when they’re standing up there with us!

We had 4 and 3, one guy requested to walk in by himself and it was fun for all.

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