We’re having a destination wedding and I feel selfish/silly for taking a honeymoon after. But I feel like if we don’t do it then we will put it off and it won’t really feel like a “honeymoon”. What would you do?

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You’re already traveling, just keep on. No reason you should feel guilty.

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You can travel later - a lot of people push off their honeymoon until later. It all has to do with personal preference!

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I just got back from a “mini moon” in the same country but a different location right after the wedding. It was great!

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Our wedding is in Italy and we’re going to do proper honeymoon later this year in Greece. Right afterwards though, we’ll come back and do a mini-moon in Vermont.

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