Trying to plan my wedding but everyone keeps telling me what to do and giving their outside opinions. 🫠

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If they aren't paying, say thanks for the input, I will kerp that in mind and just move on. If they are paying and you prefer something else, that is when you discuss the merits and sell your position. For everyone else, smile, say thanks and move on. They are likely just excited for you and trying to be helpful.

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For real. Front the bill or shut up

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Totally get it. Here's how my partner and I handled it:

1. Not Paying? No Opinion.
2. Paying/Contributing? No Strings Attached Only! Contribution from anyone would be a GIFT, not a given. Gifts don't get conditions.
3. Still An Issue? Thank you for saving us the cost of inviting one less person. 🌝

It's rough out there. But please make sure you take care of yourself and your peace. What is important is that you and your partner love your day.

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