In a very insecure relationship. It hurts to leave but it's painful to stay. No response and no comforting after arguments. Having a rough day. Can't focus and need some support.
How many chances can you give someone?
I am devastated. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years we were taking about getting married and having kids. Then I discovered he was also in another relationship - 2 years in.
He promised her… more
The most annoying part about making plans with friends who have boyfriends. They think it's okay to be late to everything. I've been sitting here waiting for 30 minutes for my friend and her b… more
Okay, it’s time to stop putting on a face about this. I love my boyfriend so much, but covid is ruining us. We are both still WFH and argue every few days about the dumbest stuff. My and his mental he… more
My boyfriend is texting his best friend's girlfriend. He openly says "oh i texted her about x" to me and I believe him...but my concern is that they're going to start some sort of fl… more
I was okay and then randomly saw photos of my ex that i didnt know existed in my message history to my friend (i deleted everything related to him the day we broke up) and it has brought back all the … more
How do you actually find a decent person to date when you’re working 80+ consulting hours? Like seriously...everyone I know who recently got engaged or married had been long term dating since high sch… more
I got ghosted after a year of serious dating. It's been months this has happened but every night I lay in bed and think of how he repeatedly said "I'll always be here for you, no matter the outcome&q… more
It’s been six weeks since he broke up with me and I feel like I’m still in shock. Like I’m in a nightmare I can’t wake up from. I just can’t believe he left me when he always said he never would.
What are some thoughts that get you out of your breakup sadness zone? I need to borrow them.
1. Have a better life than the one you imagined with him
2. Build a big life. Being rich and famous solves everythi… more
I finally move out in two days and as the day gets closer, it gets so much harder. I love him and it hurts. Even right now, I’m still living with him and I’m in the living room watching tv and he’s wo… more
I’m shooting 3 talks tomorrow, none of the talks have been written. I can’t stop thinking about him.
How are all the lovely ladies doing today?! It's one of those days for me... Trying very hard with every breath to not check his profile and see what he's up to...
He broke up with me almost 2 months… more
Currently going through divorce proceedings. I honestly don't want to date anyone right now but I have this fear that I'm already 28 and I'll never meet anyone good. I went on some apps an… more
My friend invited me to hang out with her and her friends because I was feeling very sad about my breakup. Three of her friends end up hitting on me and just really invading my personal space. I hones… more
The worst part of my breakup is the urge to obsess over his happiness with the woman he cheated on me with. Any tips?
I miss being able to innocently and naively fall in love and trust that things will work out. After being so disappointed twice in a row i just feel like now i cannot trust guys anymore and what they … more
Had another dream about my ex. I asked him questions on why he changed. He answered just let go. I think now my brain is finally starting to fully acknowledge there is only one path forward.
Going through a terrible breakup. Whenever I wake up, either in the morning or from a nap, I immediately uncontrollably cry because of the immediate thought that he is no longer next to me. The worst … more
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