My friend invited me to hang out with her and her friends because I was feeling very sad about my breakup. Three of her friends end up hitting on me and just really invading my personal space. I honestly thought they had a joke or game of some sort. I tell my friend it makes me uncomfortable because it’s not something I’m looking for atm. She says I should take it as a compliment, but the only thing I feel is disgust that I now have to look forward to guys only wanting me for my body 😔

If you met in an app and you’ve been texting, should you block the other person from seeing you using the app since nothing is exclusive yet or is that weird?

How do you interpret a guy watching all of your insta stories basically within 30 mins of posting them, and ‘liking’ them frequently. For example, I was at a wedding last weekend and posting photos til like 5 am- he watched every single one almost instantly

If you're obliged to choose to date a divorcee or a widow/widower, which one would you choose? All things about these 2 person being equal.

If you are a couple with no kids, how do you go about finding friends in the area? I struggle so much :( most of my close friends are now scattered across the country and I feel like we have no one close to us anymore. I don’t even know how we’d go about making new friends anymore!

I recently met my close friend’s boyfriend and he made a good impression…until he tackled me. Now I don’t know how to raise it with my friend. My friend and I live in different parts of the country so I was looking forward to both of them visiting me since it seems like her happiest relationship. We were enjoying a picnic in the park by the lake and I don’t even know why but he started saying he wanted to rassle me (or however wrestling would be spelled in a fake accent) but (Cont…)

Where do you stand on joint families or extended family not considering themselves as groups meeting during a quarantine? Is it one if 6 or 9 people are living together or visiting frequently?

What’s the best way to meet other DL gay dudes who are not into the boystown scene?

Tips for training a new nanny? We just hired a new one and, despite coming with years of experience, she seems very inexperienced and, frankly, a little lazy. My little doesn’t do well with change so I don’t want to fire her. Any tips on training a new nanny? I feel like I need to walk her through every minor expectation.

Do you ever feel like you’re just never going to experience real love or be that ‘special someone’ for somebody? I sometimes feel like I am defective in some way, because despite being in my early 30s, I have never felt particularly special to any guy I have been with- it’s always felt like I am the space filler until they meet the right person

34M. I am a tall athletic man. Ladies do you find tall men to be attractive?

Looking for a PUBG Mobile duo buddy. Hit me up!

I had an emotional affair with a coworker that lasted maybe 3-4 months. She was/is in a long term relationship and I was/am married. She broke it off for no specific reason. That was around the start of COVID. 2+ years later I still haven't gotten over her and think about her constantly. We still work together but our relationship is done (at her choosing). I would drop everything in a heartbeat to get back with her. I'm still married but so sad daily. Thanks for listening.

My bf took a guys trip to Caribbean to celebrate a good friend of 20+ year’s milestone bday. The friend’s bday is the day before mine. Normally bf and I trip for my bday over the holiday weekend. Bf will be back for my actual bday, and we’re taking a domestic trip next weekend. That said, I still feel a little miffed that we’re not spending this weekend together like normal. Are my feelings unreasonable?

Hi - wondering if anyone has any vegetarian dinner recipes that would wow my GF? Trying to surprise her with dinner this weekend. Thanks in advance

23M Bangalore. Do ping if interested.

How do you get over someone you never dated? I know this person is not right for me but I can’t get it off my head

Is this common? My girlfriend just does whatever I want or tell her to do strongly prefers it that way. If I ask her what she wants to do that weekend or where she wants to eat or if she wants to come over, it’s literally always “whatever you want”

Guys, this busy season is terrible - I miss my kid so much during the day. Also I feel like I am disappointing everyone at work, my spouse, my kid. There is not enough hour in a day

Hi All, What would be the approx ctc in optum for product owner with 6 years experience.

I am looking for referral.
Current Employer- TCS
YOE- 5.7 years
Skill- Reconciliation, Account Receivable, Account Payable, Process Audit, Procure to Pay, Order to Cash, Record to Report
Location- Hyderabad, Bangalore

Please let me know if anyone have openings in their organization for finance domain

Hi fishes, Any openings for functional BAs? Looking for Solution and Strategy related positions. Yoe. 6+yrs Trying to transition into a Solution and Strategy Consultant, any suggestions or reference appreciated? PwC Accenture Morgan Stanley Deloitte EY Infosys

Does anything,at work, feel better than the moment when a prospect calls you and says that they have done their due diligence and chosen you?

Hello Fishes

Please help me to get a job in Supply chain / Logistics
I have total 7.5 yrs experience in line haul transportation

Hi. I am a 26 yo physical therapist from Nyc. I leave my house at 6:30 am and get back at 6:30pm. I spend 3 hours on my commut which sucks. by the time I arrive home, I just feel so tired and poor. I also feel like PTs dont get paid that much anymorr because of inflation. I feel “poor”. I love being a PT but thinking about the future, having a house, having kids.. i dont think being a PT can sustain it all. i think our max would be around $90k in the clinical aspect. I want an online side gig or

Anyone looking for a referal at Salesforce Company. Let me know.

Does your company have a rewards and recognitions program? Is it any good?

34M. I am a tall athletic man. Ladies do you find tall men to be attractive?

Hi, anyone with knowledge/experience in UX Writing, and if so, do you have advice for someone brand new to it? I currently have a job in Medical Writing-- can I use that as a selling point to ask for a higher salary?

Can you counteroffer the VA? Is that even a thing? I’m curious to know how this works.

What is to be discussed during Hr round after 2 rounds of interview in wipro? Expectation was already told as 24 fixed. With an offer of 20lpa.

Yoe 8, skill business analysis , tech stack data visualization

What’s your favorite salad chain? Trying to eat healthy…

Hi fishes,
I am in the FP&A team with 5 years experience. Relevant experience 1 year. Can somebody refer to me in Fintech companies

I need 20 likes to unlock my DM. Please help.

Getting paid $52/hour as a part-time employee. My supervisor wants to convert me into a contractor. What should my hourly rate be now?

Has anyone been successful doing FBA? If so has it been with your own brand or just buying from China/Alibaba? Or arbitrage?

What are some thoughts that get you out of your breakup sadness zone? I need to borrow them.

1. Have a better life than the one you imagined with him
2. Build a big life. Being rich and famous solves everything.
3. Mind your business. Be the main character in your story.

My boyfriend doesn't like to talk about his feelings. It's the time of year where he lost his sister (passed away) very suddenly and idk how to bring it up to him. I want him to know I know it's that time but feel like he'll just yell at me.

Going through a terrible breakup. Whenever I wake up, either in the morning or from a nap, I immediately uncontrollably cry because of the immediate thought that he is no longer next to me. The worst part is that we’re living together still (not talking or sleeping in the same room). I can’t even imagine what it will be like when we can finally break our lease. Does this feeling ever end?

I’m shooting 3 talks tomorrow, none of the talks have been written. I can’t stop thinking about him.

Had another dream about my ex. I asked him questions on why he changed. He answered just let go. I think now my brain is finally starting to fully acknowledge there is only one path forward.

It’s been six weeks since he broke up with me and I feel like I’m still in shock. Like I’m in a nightmare I can’t wake up from. I just can’t believe he left me when he always said he never would.

I am devastated. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years we were taking about getting married and having kids. Then I discovered he was also in another relationship - 2 years in.
He promised her all the same sweet stuff. I'm trying not to be too hard on myself but I'm not sure I can recover from this.

Hope everyone is doing well and happy, recovering from the heart break ❤️

How are all the lovely ladies doing today?! It's one of those days for me... Trying very hard with every breath to not check his profile and see what he's up to...
He broke up with me almost 2 months ago and it's just been death.
Some days very good and busy and powering through. Other days are hell. Pure hell

Welcome! Feel free to share any stories about marriage, divorce, other personal issues, etc. This group is to support, and provide POSITIVE advice/feedback to women who might be struggling with a personal issue. Keep it clean, keep it classy, keep it positive. Thanks!

Okay, it’s time to stop putting on a face about this. I love my boyfriend so much, but covid is ruining us. We are both still WFH and argue every few days about the dumbest stuff. My and his mental health are both diminishing and it feels like an impossible trench to dig out of. My stomach hurts every time we fight and I (independent of him) feel so stuck in this horrible global crisis. I don’t want to lose him, but I need to figure out how to dig us both out of this unsustainable mental state.

The worst part of my breakup is the urge to obsess over his happiness with the woman he cheated on me with. Any tips?

I was okay and then randomly saw photos of my ex that i didnt know existed in my message history to my friend (i deleted everything related to him the day we broke up) and it has brought back all the memories and pain. It has already been over two months. I hope this can go away.

Currently going through divorce proceedings. I honestly don't want to date anyone right now but I have this fear that I'm already 28 and I'll never meet anyone good. I went on some apps and matched with some guys but I feel like they're all the same and I don't wana get to know anyone. But I'm also scared for my future.

My boyfriend is texting his best friend's girlfriend. He openly says "oh i texted her about x" to me and I believe him...but my concern is that they're going to start some sort of flirtationship. She's some sort of model and has even told her boyfriend that my boyfriend is funny whereas she says her boyfriend is obnoxious. Is this something to worry about? We're not in a great space right now so Idk what to think.

I finally move out in two days and as the day gets closer, it gets so much harder. I love him and it hurts. Even right now, I’m still living with him and I’m in the living room watching tv and he’s working at his station. I think soon I’ll just be occupying my own time alone and not with the person I love. Idk how people do this.

I miss being able to innocently and naively fall in love and trust that things will work out. After being so disappointed twice in a row i just feel like now i cannot trust guys anymore and what they say. :( once u learn something, you cannot unlearn

How do you actually find a decent person to date when you’re working 80+ consulting hours? Like seriously...everyone I know who recently got engaged or married had been long term dating since high school or college. What has worked for people?

How many chances can you give someone?