My boyfriend is texting his best friend's girlfriend. He openly says "oh i texted her about x" to me and I believe him...but my concern is that they're going to start some sort of flirtationship. She's some sort of model and has even told her boyfriend that my boyfriend is funny whereas she says her boyfriend is obnoxious. Is this something to worry about? We're not in a great space right now so Idk what to think.

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It’s not worth worrying about it. If a man’s going to cheat, don’t try to stop him. Because if you need to get involved, he doesn’t deserve you! Sounds extremely innocent to me, but I fully get the being insecure thing

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