Anybody else having problems in the bedroom? I'm 28F and he's 35M and he's got a lot less stamina than I expected. He used to be able to do it twice a night, now he can barely do it once. Advice?

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Change of lifestyle is highly recommended.
Consultation is most important. Communicate and proceed.
There's odd experience in my life about this which involved another lady.
You'll need to encourage and also have to provide comfort and also need to give him confidence that you'll be extremely discreet about this.
Try yourself to spice it up

Twice a night?? He’s probably tired, girl, let the man sleep 😂

Everyone has different needs … Once a night 7 days a week may seem plenty to some :)….also not sure how long you have been together as that is a factor too.

I think a lot of us have various problems in the bedroom but it’s nothing communication from both sides and effort can’t fix. Some conversations are never easy but it’s absolutely necessary.

So when you say ‘A lot less stamina’…is that just lately or has that always been the case?

Sorry but ‘barely do it once’ had me lol-ing a little. Bro sounds like he may be a little exhausted from your presumably high sex drive.

Some of these comments are not it LOL. Can't a girl just ask a question without someone making dirty comments? Anyway I noticed the same thing with my husband when he turned 35. He ended up going to the doctor and he had no testosterone at all and had to be put on a shot. That could be the problem honestly.

Has he gained weight? Is he in the same health as he was when he was going twice a night?

He needs rest maybe a physical. A change of scenery like a vacation or weekend getaway won't hurt. And try talking to him about his interests and having meaningful conversations.

Sounds like you guys need a sex therapist.

Is this for real or a trigger post?

Reporting for duty! Happy to step in for round 2 if your husband can't lol

Too much PMO

Get him the book, “She comes first”, which is about giving oral sex to women. If he learns that you won’t care about stamina.

How do you know that he is having less stamina 👻

If they snore and are feeling fatigued a lot have them go in for a sleep study. Sleep apnea can cause these issues.

Medications can also cause this if they recently started on something new.

Major stress in their life all of a sudden?

Yup nope I have the same - 30s F and 40sM. At this point I’m taking us to the sex therapist.

My husband always has trouble finishing 2 days in a row, even when we wanted him to based on ovulation timing. You guys have time to have sex that much?

Daily would be much more than what he'd be looking at it. So, I believe please give him some space and down the line it'd also be converted into once a week and it would also be fine to many...