Do you schedule intimacy with your partner

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No and as a result there is none

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For me it would give me anxiety honestly. Like what if I can’t…

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We’re older but still have really busy lives. We’re pretty free on Wednesday, Friday (a little less often) and Saturday - so those are good days if other things align. We get together once each week on average. Married 43 years.

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Normally Saturday morning but not technically scheduled.

How are you defining intimacy? We both travel a lot so when we are together there is definitely degrees of sexy time but we also choose to get very close with whatever we’re doing. So that can mean laying on each other on the couch or bed. When we are traveling we are always sharing about our days. I find all of those moment intimate to different degrees. I guess it really depends on what you want done and when.

Yes, I've done that. We are both professionals who work with international teams, so we are often not available during days or nights Monday through Thursday. This, plus busy social lives mean we have sometimes needed to look at calendars to see when we would both have time and energy for intimacy.

Scheduling intimacy is no worse than scheduling dates.

It’s the first part of bed time daily. So it’s more natural than a schedule.

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