There’s no worst feeling that to be rejected by someone you love. I gave my heart and time to someone I thought felt the same towards me for more than a year. They decided to end the relationship cause they didn’t feel the same, and even though I appreciate the honesty, it hurts a lot!

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It is an awful feeling. If there is any silver lining it would be that you don’t want to spend forever with someone who doesn’t feel the same, even if they fake it.

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^^^ this is a great point. some people spend ten years with the same person only to eventually figure out it’s not going to work. that’s a lot worse than your situation.

It does hurt. I'm sorry.

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I am sorry 😰 it does hurt when these things happen. It’s too bad they drug it out that long, and then ended it during the holidays. Send you some virtual hugs 💔

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