Going through separation phase after 10 yrs of marriage with 2 kids. Did anyone faced this? Please pour your views to overcome this

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I am actually worried about my kids only

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If your husband is acknowledging his mistake and if he is promising that he won't behave the way he behaved with you then definitely you should think.
If matter is gonna be solved for forever then definitely you should rethink.

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If the relationship is not physically or mentally abusive in any way, please rethink your decision.

I understand mental trauma is as bad as physical trauma.If it's anyone of above , pls leave at the earliest. If you want to talk to me pls ping me, I am all ears if you don't mind.

Good decision

The kids will be most affected from this decision. Please reconsider. What age are the kids ?

They are too young to even understand what you both are going to do ... Please reconsider your decision by discussing along with your spouse.

I read through comments and replies on this thread. I have seen physical and mental abuse up close and personal. You have made a very tough and difficult decision, stick to it despite “reconsideration” advices. Its never a good thing to stay in an abusive household, doesnt matter the nature of it…abuse is abuse. Never good for the partners involved, never good for the children involved. Tough but you got to do it, for you and your children future sake. I grew up in an abusive household where the parents stuck together in the name of kids but trust me, the damage is done. And all that plays out real time when im out open in the world dealing with people. Children are affected the most in such relationships. An honest perspective from someone who was in your kids shoes for the majority of her life

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