Hi Guys, I genuinely need guidance. I’m almost 30 and mentally exhausted due to marriage pressure.
Earlier I had 12 LPA in Noida, now moved to Bangalore with 19 LPA for career growth. Still, rishtas are not working mainly because:
I did BCA, not B.Tech
I am the only earning member
My hometown house is in an old narrow mohalla
Father is almost 70 and not working
Many families also reject because Bangalor is costly. I have 7.5 years experience.
Would appreciate genuine advice on what I can improve

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Bro who will tell all these things to old mindset girls parents??

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