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Depends ....what is it that you said ?
Conversation Starter
That’s a fair question. It wasn’t one specific statement, but a pattern where asking for clarity or raising concerns was met with “be professional” instead of discussion. For me, that’s where the disconnect showed up.
I would need a little bit more information as I'm not sure about the situation however reading it at face value it seems like your thoughts are being dismissed and he/she doesn't want to hear what you have to say-which seems unprofessional on their part.
I would suggest letting he/she finish what they have to say before you reply. If you sense they are not open to any more discussion, keep silent. You know what type of environment you're dealing with, and it doesn't sound like a person that practices open communication.
Conversation Starter
I appreciate you saying that. That’s exactly what I was trying to name. When “professionalism” shuts down dialogue instead of supporting it, something’s already off.
Rising Star
I agree on this with you
Conversation Starter
Agreed. It shouldn’t happen, yet it still does far too often. That disconnect between how things should work and how they actually play out is telling.
Maybe instead of objecting or talking to hear yourself talk, just be silent. Listen to everything and observe the audience first. Keep the questions until the end and then state the facts and or questions, short and succinct. Just my thoughts with limited info and context.
Absolutely it should not happen but it still happens in my circle and I've been around a long time just saying
Rising Star
I agree
Sometimes be professional just means be professional. But you are right, it is also one of the many terms used to manipulate employees into silence, especially women.
Conversation Starter
Yes, that distinction really matters. Professionalism should mean respect and accountability, not silence. When it’s selectively enforced, it becomes a control tool instead.