How do you deal with avoidant partners?

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Avoid them

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Are they avoidant or do they just not like you and only staying with you out of convenience? Either way, I would end it.

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Take their money then replace them.

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I don’t date them… that works?

Get the power to not be in a relationship with someone who can’t love you in a healthy way. Figure out why your attachment and wounds are leading you to them. Resolve that and naturally attract someone with secure attachment. Those are the steps.

I was with one and it’s exhausting!

Do you come with problems or suggested solutions looking for guidance? They typically avoid problems and lean into potential solutions.

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