Everyone likes me because I'm a doormat with no boundaries. I do anything and say anything to make people happy. I will think what you think I should think. Will you be my friend?

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Honestly, no. One of my favorite qualities about my friends is that I can trust them to be straight with me and tell me if I’m being dumb

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I feel the same way omg or I quietly disappear so no one bothers me

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Do you ever think about implementing boundaries? I used to be a people pleaser and it’s so much better to have boundaries set for yourself. Being a doormat sucks imo!

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Yes I will

You sound like one of my colleagues

I have friends like this, but unfortunately people use them and take advantage all the time!

Yes i will be your friend, but can two doormats be friends?

Ily 🥹

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