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That’s rough, and honestly pretty telling. I’d probably follow up one more time just to be sure, but after that I’d take the hint and move on. Sometimes people love the idea of helping more than the reality of actually doing it.

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Did you guys get along?

As an investment banker for 15 years, I have referred someone only once. The reason? Your work ethic and diligence is something that cannot be vouched. Especially if you are a fresher or have worked at unknown organizations. The person I had referred took work too casually and instead of being grateful, he was arrogant. I would rather give a chance to an unknown person who has shown and demonstrated strong credentials. Yes, we fired him. My advice to you, take the hint and move on. Take it as a learning.

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