I just got bad mouthed on LinkedIn by a fairly new hire for micromanging and being 'rude' and it's affecting me a lot more than I want it to. I think Gen-Z really is the worst and just want jobs that they don't have to work in. I've seen this particular person pretending to work and instead be on their social media multiple times, which is what even led to me being a little more cautious with him. It's not up to me to get him off the team, but the situation is really sticky. I hope management does what they have to do since I've already escalated this with them. Apart from that, how would you best deal with this? This is not a familiar feeling.

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Screenshot the post for your records, just to have handy. Also dont categorize an entire generation on this one bad human. Not to discredit your feelings but to put an entire generation in a bad category is unfair. As a millennial who was young in their career when the bashing campaign on us being useless and entitled was at its peak it felt like we were misjudged constantly and I hated seeing people talk bad about my generation when everyone I knew was just trying to pay our bills and survive… remember those days?

And finally why not just say something to them? I’d take the screenshot and send it to them and say let’s talk about this and put a call on their calendar or meet in person. Tell them public bashing of coworkers isn’t cool and a bad look for all of us at the company. if there’s a problem let’s handle it behind closed doors but let’s not air dirty laundry on a professional network. Now tell me, what’s the issue and how can we move forward together in a positive way.

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That's tough! I'm sorry that happened, but first and foremest avoid engaging with it. Maintain a professional demeanor, even if it's difficult to! And if you really need to channel the frustration, talk to trusted colleagues or mentors about your feelings and concerns. Since you've already escalated the issue, let management address it while you focus on your work.

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In my experience, "management" understands what gen Z does/ doesn't do. But then, they are literally the future, and so there are different sets of rules.

Document where your gen Z resource did not come through for you and the financial impact. If your manager doesn't get back to you, or tries to sweep this under the rug- go to HR with your documentation. Talk about not feeling appreciated and how this outburst (?) On LinkedIn is impacting you. Mental health impacts all of us, but it's only gen Z that talks about it. We were brought up to handle it all.

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As a more senior HR person l wouldn't put the focus on you. It should be the negative impact the post has towards the image of the company. I would screenshot it to and see if the company could have tgem take it down. Is it possible they know you went to your manager. Does your employee handbook have a blurb about retaliation towards other workers? If so, l would use that angle because it's easier for HR to defend. Or is there something in the handbook about proper and improper postings on social media? I had someone say to a former employer of mine something l never said. That person took it and ran with whatever lie they trumped up. l wasn't looked favorably afterwards. He said it because l wouldn't engage in conversation about why l left the organization. I asked him if he thought it would be all right if l called his former employer to smear his name? Mind you this didn't take place on social media this was a discussion he wanted me to have with him who was a temporary employee. Someone else on the team said he has Aspberges and that's why he acts that way. I questioned that claim and if that was the case why would this other person believe what a random person says about a former employee. More importantly why was it so important to them to talk about me. l left on my own accord for a better opportunity but that answer wasn't good enough for him. If you let this person get away with it they will feel emboldened to post more. You should block them.

You could try minding your own business and if this guy or the others you tattle-taled on are actually bad workers they will show it themselves in time at their own demise to management and be dealt with then. Management tends to know what they’re doing. You’re acting like a little snitch lol. YTA.

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OP, do not engage on LinkedIn. If that has already happened, that is going to work against you. If you have not “answered“ this person on LinkedIn screenshot what they did just in case they deleted so you have it on record. And then I would just go about and do your work to the very best of your ability and shut them up.
You will never get around folks in the workplace of any generation. You need to be able to work with them and probably need to be able to understand how to work for them because trust me at one point you will be working for somebody either you don’t trust, you don’t like. Learn how to navigate that.

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Start a case with HR, document everything, consider issuing a formal written warning for insubordination.

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Can you reach out to your management and LinkedIn about this?

If your company requires you to have LinkedIn then address this with your company. If they don't, then it is unfortunate but you've got to stay quiet. Inventory it and record it in files as needed, but it isn't illegal just petty and annoying.

Please consider having a heart to heart with this person and figure out how you can better manage them, if not for both of your sakes then at least for yours. Micromanagement is not a good management style, and it will start to bleed into how you manage others.

The joys and pains of working in multi-generational environments. I would love to tell you that it gets easier with age and tenure, but doesn’t —it only gets worse.

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