I just sent a work-related message to a person that’s staffed with me in a deal. I’ve become what I swore to destroy.

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I don’t get it. What else would you send them?

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So you’re saying you texted them about work instead of emailed? I’m just really confused what you’re talking about here

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Huh?

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