I lateraled about six months ago for better hours and a $30k pay bump. And while I’m not pulling all-nighters anymore, I can’t shake the feeling that I’ve stepped backwards. The firm name doesn’t carry the same weight, the work is less complex, and there’s no clear training or advancement path. I thought I’d be happier with a bit more balance, but now I just feel… stalled. Is this just adjustment anxiety, or should I start quietly planning my next move now?

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Give it a full year to really assess what you’re gaining vs. giving up, but in the meantime, start networking so you have options if the stagnation sticks.

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