I moved firms recently, and I already know it’s not for me. Don’t think I even want to do civil litigation anymore. I know I gotta network and start sending out apps, but it’s daunting to start this process all over again. Just venting.

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Been there. Keep your head up, you'll find something you like better. Good luck!

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But I suppose the most important thing is to figure out what you want to do. Then leverage your current situation for experience in the area.

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Be there and it sucks. Just start applying. Civil litigation is not bad if you are not micromanaged.

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Same. Feeling so down about it.

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I had a classmate who left a job teaching high school so that he could become a lawyer. He was successful enough as a litigator that he was able to retire from being a lawyer so that he could leave the practice to become a high school teacher.

FWIW, someone my kid knows from scouts attended that school, and the kid's mom told me that the ex-lawyer was the favorite teacher of most of the students.

I feel like the only way to get out of this miserable situation is to be financial independent.
I feel so bad that if I had 1million USD in cash. I would quit. But I don’t have that money…

Can I apply for that position? 😅🥲

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