I need guidance. How do people deal with narcissistic in laws?

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You don’t. Cut them off lol

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What K1 wrote. Just last month I paid for my wife to fly to Portland and spend a week with her family. Made sure she got good seat on the plane, wished her well, told her not to worry about me - I’ll take care of the house/kids/pets. Took me an hour to stop smiling when I drove away from the airport after dropping her off, thinking of the misery I avoided.

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Invite them over for dinner and put a strong laxative in their food so they embarrass themselves.

You don't. In-laws are that weird thing you can strongly dislike but have to be around because your significant other cares for them. I find my brother in law has a very punchable face every time I see him and get to flustered with my wife's parents' idiotic life choices.

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