I accept follow requests left & right without following back and without shame. What does this say about me besides that I and, let’s say Beyoncé, are generally very similar?

What is the female equivalent of the male Patagonia fleece vest over dress shirt combo?

Hello Team, Could you please let me know, how much salary will be sufficient to live in malaysia with family.

Pls suggest

I’m in love with a guy that I’m not physically attracted to. Attraction is first on my list. He makes me feel warm, happy, and he’s so sweet and nurturing; he reminds me of my mom, who recently passed. He makes me smile. He has really great energy. I know I will cheat on him tho, and that's my problem. I know I’m a problematic loser. I just don't wanna hurt him. What would you do?

Is the future of web design headed to no code tools like Webflow?

Got an offer for a Controller in a Fintech startup. The opportunity is amazing.
Base pay seems par ( it’s 15% above my current base). YE Bonus is based on performance. Equity is $55k worth vesting over 4 years. I feel the equity is too low.
How much equity would be fair as per industry standards?

So since this is an Indian political bowl, what’s the BJP vs. non BJP member base we have here? Show by way of likes. NOTE: I’m keeping it simple and restricting to 2 options and using BJP as the filter as they are in power.

Hello Friends, hope you all are doing good and chilling here.
I need a good suggestion from all of you, kindly help me to know, which please is good for purchasing the flat, Electronic City or Whitefield or K.R.Puram or somewhere else (share the place and reason please)

Need your help me on this. I need a good apartment for family and there should be good/mix community.

Hi All,, Can I get any reference for Data Engineer?? I have 5+ yrs of Big data and spark exp.

Looking to exit Deloitte as a SM with 10 years of experience of providing advisory services. Anyone willing to provide a referral for opportunities at Google?

Looking to help anyone evaluate their offer letters. Feel free to DM our company works with many businesses and candidates to negotiate salaries

Has anyone started their in house career in a contract role? Would you mind sharing your path? Was it difficult to land a permanent in house role after?

What is the post and expected CTC for a CA in Amex having Post qualification experience of 3 years.

How much does a software engineer with 2 yoe get paid in Oracle ?

FYI Prometric has closed all testing centers until April 16th

Hi Fishes,

I've transferred my PF from Wipro to Cognizant where in it the Employee's PF shows around 83k but the Employer's PF shows only around 27k.

If the employee and employer have to contribute 12% then both should be equal to 83k isn't it?

Please advise where I am going wrong.

Anyone at DU this week??

Hi LGBT fam! I need some hearts to send a DM to someone who is willing to offer me a job connection. Anyone care to help? 😅

Ryan Murphy is the new Aaron Spelling. Big rich producer making money off of cheesy shlock. I guess you can’t take the Indiana out of the boy. Heart’s in the right place though. Bless his heart.

I’m in love with a guy that I’m not physically attracted to. Attraction is first on my list. He makes me feel warm, happy, and he’s so sweet and nurturing; he reminds me of my mom, who recently passed. He makes me smile. He has really great energy. I know I will cheat on him tho, and that's my problem. I know I’m a problematic loser. I just don't wanna hurt him. What would you do?

So just met a guy and we’ve been texting. Super awesome but he recently broke up with his ex. They’re still friends and they’re both nice to me, but I can tell there’s unresolved feelings on both ends, even if they mutually agreed to break up. They’re both people I want to be friends with at least. How long should I wait? Or should I just straight up ask?

Any pittsburgh guys? Either local or travel to

Anybody at the Q Center this week?

I grew up Christian. I still believe in the healing power of Jesus Christ. But I struggle with my romantic feelings, and am getting help. However, my brother just outted me to my parents in an (cont)

Gay man here - I have the opportunity to transfer to either SF or LA. I’m pretty outdoorsy and active, so I love having as easy access as possible to related activities (cycling, hiking, etc). I prefer easy access to cities but don’t really enjoy living right in the thick of it — I’m generally pretty laid back socially (i.e., don’t go out a ton but enjoy a vibrant city / queer scene). Any recommendations / insight / resources to help me understand which city might be a better fit? Thank you! ☺️

Adult circumcision finally done. 4-6 weeks without any play is going to be hard. 😁

update from previous talking to a guy at the beginning of quarantine and becoming serious. our month is coming up this week!

Where is it easier to make some wlw friends, Austin, TX or Miami, FL? 👀

What are the most welcoming gay cities? Like friendly gay culture.

Moving to NYC today from Atlanta. Feeling nervous to leave my friends and comfort zone for the big city 😰. Excited though! If any Nyc fish ever wanna meet up....

Has anyone tried lipo or a tummy tuck in their 30s and had a really successful result? Deciding if it’s worth it to do a reset and get healthy.

Any other male 🐠 ever feel a little uncomfortable asking male colleagues to get a drink after work for HH? I’m always a little paranoid that it will come off like I’m asking them out.

Closeted and looking to chat with others :) I’m 21 M from Chicago area by the way!

Any international LGBT 🐠 worried about having to go back to home country due to visa issues?

Single, gay and in Delhi. Hit me up! I am kinda lonely and bored. 😨

How many relationships have you been in? I’m 23 but haven’t ever had anything serious. Can’t tell if I’m just picky, but I can tell that I’m lonely :-(