I went to a masseur in LV last week and this massage turned sensual. He texts me today saying he’s HIV + undetectable and he tested positive for gonorrhea yesterday. This was my first such massage experience and I feel my world has fallen apart. Our genitals touched and kisses. I did my tests this morning and waiting for results. 😌😌 why didn’t he share this before booking an appt! 😭

Was there anyone who got a dropbox appointment successfully in India. Keep refreshing the site but no luck yet.

Any online workout plan for pregnancy?

We’re getting married next spring and trying to put together our website.
Many weddings we’re attending this year have some sort of Covid-disclaimer on them saying “please have a negative PCR test or be vaccinated beforehand” (paraphrasing), but it’s the honor system, no one is checking.
For 2022, is that type of language necessary? Vaccines will have been out 1 year. The state we are getting married won’t require it (southern state), it feels like it’s on the individual wedding to say (or not).

It's really strange to me how radiation can both cause cancer (melanoma) and also be used to treat various cancers

Just got back from an 8 week scan and there was no heartbeat. Second pregnancy in a row. Not sure how many more times I can do this.

Is everyone always tired?

What’s a good hydrating face serum to use under makeup to help in achieving a flawless base? (Excluding vitamin C serum).

Prescribed wellbutrin but have serious side effects. Was hoping this would be the magic pill. So bummed and ready to give up.

A girl messaged me on Instagram after seeing one of my posts on discover. We’ve been chatting for a few weeks and she’s pretty cool. Turns out she’s 18...and I’m 28. should I stop talking to her?

48 hours in AMS, any recs or romantic ideas?

Started a new job this week. And every morning have been feeling like this anxiety ridden mess. As in, as soon as I’m conscious I feel extremely anxious. Any tips to help with this? I know it’s just because of the new job, as this has happened in the past. But it’s so uncomfortable while it happens.

ATTENTION! If you are looking to help your local community during this, DONATE BLOOD 🩸! Blood banks are beginning to dry up and won’t last much longer. COV-ID is not transmissible via blood! Act now!

Anyone up for a drink?

What’s the best cure for a throbbing headache?

Neuro nurse here- one of our CNAs recently caught a patient mid-stroke! They felt like something wasn't right with the patient and brought it to my attention. Train your aides well- it's so worth it!

Positivity: if you are under 24 yo then you are more likely to be struck by lightning than die of Coronavirus

Has anyone been hospitalized for their depression? How did it go? And we’re you able to get disability from your insurance policy at work?

I bought a single family home in 2020 and I received a rate of 3.125% for a 30 year fixed loan with a 15% down payment. I pay a PMI every month. Should I consider refinancing and consider a 15 year loan? I also would like to get rid of my PMI. My credit score is a above 720. What are some costs I should consider if I refinance?

Want to start saving/investing from this year. Got £11K and will have £2K a month to invest - any recommendations? I don’t want to take crazy risks, somewhere where this is steady long term growth. Have already maxed out pension and I assume next step is maxing out ISA? After that, what is best?

I guess when you are Partner you don’t need to look at your calendar before sending out invites 😡

What is your take on LGA airport. Never been to that airport. Planning for a vacation with family to NYC. Flights from LGA to Chicago are cheaper than Newark to Chicago.

In the process of looking for new jobs, but I have a few planned pto scheduled for sept and December. The flights haven’t been booked yet but do you think it’s better to wait to see if I get (cont.)

Can we simulatneoulsy appear for interviews with different business units? Is it true that other business unit can also offer you even if you are selected in citi for some other unit?

How is SAP Labs projects from HCL ? How is work life ? Any inputs guys

There are multiple openings at Larsen & Toubro Infotech If someone is interested for the job, dm me job id, will refer you

PEGA certified business architect. Yay or nay?

About to go in house from biglaw for the first time! Made this group for everyone like me and those who have more (or less) experience to share! Already at 100 members in several hours!!! 😎😎😎

Debt Finance nyc biglaw attorney considering a move to Houston for financial reasons. Can anyone tell what it would be like (the good and bad)? I see a lot of firms including mine paying the same salary and wonder what would I not like?

What is the salary of a Partner in EY?

I accepted a offer from NT, however after a week that yesterday i got a better offer from Deloitte. How do i tell NT that i wont be going forward!

Has anyone interviewed with Lockheed Martin?

Any insight on the interview process at AbbVie for the Sr safety data scientists?

Any Nigerians here?

In my quest to get over my ex, I started a secret Instagram account where I rate (scale of 0-10) the intercourse I’ve been having with people along with a tarot card

Any recommendations for Philly? Taking a quick trip there this weekend.

Any thoughts on Dublin? Mid 20s male here from India. Would love to hear any perspectives on the immigrant experience, gay life, quality of life in general, healthcare etc. If it's helpful context - I've never lived away from home. Thanks in advance!

33 never been to pride. Live in NYC. What should I do?

Anyone wanna network at gunnison this summer? 🍆⚖️

Have any bottoms struggled with hemorrhoids before? Nervous mine won’t go away/this will be an ongoing issue that keeps me from bottoming in my relationship. Also a bid nervous to talk about it with my partner - concerned he’ll be turned off. Any advice would be helpful!

Lately I’ve seen a lot of “Pride” jockstraps on sale because I suppose the Pride season is over — rainbow jockstraps etc. I was thinking tonight when I was at the gym that I might be the only gay who wears jockstraps for their intended purpose. Just curious, does anyone else wear them for non-sexual reasons? I like the look and feel, and wear traditional ones usually, and I’ve been wearing them since the late 90’s for athletic stuff.

are parke and ronen swimwear good? how is the fit

So I have good relationships with all my straight guy friends and we all take trips together and are platonic. Recently found out one of my guy friends is secretly questioning himself and has started to make weird sexual tension between us when we’re drinking. In my drunken stupor, I entertain him cuz objectively, he’s really really hot but in reality, I wanna shut it down cuz I’ve had bad experiences with hooking up with “straight” guy friends. Any way to diffuse/deflect this before escalating?

May be moving to Philly soon. What’s the lgbt scene like? I’m a 27m. Newly single and eager to jump back into the dating life