If I as a former associate invite a former mentor partner out for lunch, who pays? If it makes a difference, I am going in-house and want to bring on the partner on as outside counsel for our company. TIA!

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Whoever extends the invite should pay

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Absolutely, partner could very well could snatch that bill when it comes but don't sit there waiting for that.

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Thanks everyone. I fully intended on picking up the bill, but in the end the partner got it. Appreciate everyone’s input!

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You should expect to pay since you extended the invite, but I wouldn’t be surprised if the partner insists on picking up the check because of the disparity in income.

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Both sides should be expensing it though either way, it’s a business meeting.

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Under no circumstances should you invite someone to lunch or dinner and expect them to pick up the bill. They may end up paying, but you have to at least be ready/expect to pick up the bill too.

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