I’m SO traumatized and seeking therapy. I have been through several ivf cycles so familiar with the process . I usually got a result on day 8dpt of whether the pregnancy is progressing . I tested with a urine test (8dpt) then when I got a faint positive , went ahead and took a blood test twice. Since the blood test was twice , I told the doctor via what’s app and she told me to discontinue medications . I then later realized that maybe it was too early to discontinue and indeed it was early.

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Was the blood test negative or positive?

Blood was negative but this was on 9dpt .

I would test again tomorrow/today for closure, but I think the blood test during any portion of day 9 is almost always definitive. I’ve been at two clinics and they would both test on day 9 if day 10 was a weekend or holiday. And they do all their blood testing by 10:00 am per their contract with the lab, even if the transfer had been in the afternoon. So sorry you are going through this. I know how infuriating it can be when it feels like you’re doing everything possible to make this work and your clinic drops the ball on something. I definitely did a lot of therapy after multiple instances of that at our first clinic.

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You are not supposed to test until day 13 or 14. This is when you have definitive results

Didn’t your clinic schedule the test for 13-14days out during your transfer? Huge red flag if they didn’t

Also, i know its hard but never test at home. Probably not helpful at this point but for your future transfers

Agree with A1 completely. I did my 2nd beta at a 3rd party lab because I was traveling. There is nothing unique about an HCG blood test that would require it to be done by the fertility clinic.

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