Is it weird for an associate to give the partner they work closely with a gift? With the holidays coming up I always wonder who I should buy for at the office

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Do not gift up. It’s like a top 10 rule of being not poor.

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If you have to ask…

The general rule is to not gift up. But if you do it should be something of very low value . . . Thus the focus is not on the actual gift but the thoughtfulness of the occasion. For instance something homemade (i.e. baked goods) is along the lines of the most i would give up

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This!

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I’ve always done that actually

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Nice bottle of scotch or brandy (that’s his favorite)

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I did when I worked in a very collegial small firm.

No. I used to do it. Always welcome.

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I received a gift from an associate. I thought it was very thoughtful. No other associate did that.

Maybe all of you could organize a white elephant gift exchange thing?

I always do this for a partner that I work extremely closely with. Something thoughtful. It’s always appreciated and never feels weird.

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