Is masc4masc still prevalent in our “community” or is that dying down some?

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Did it ever really go away??

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I was always confused about that masc4masc actually means. Lumberjacks 4 Lumberjacks? Within some scale, people’s view on what is masculine isn’t objective.

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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having that preference, but it’s very much present.

Openly asking for it / having on a profile is dying away at least in big urban areas (probably not outside that). People often having implicit preferences for masculinity probably isn’t

That’s a great point. I do feel like I’ve seen it on profiles less lately.

I think the community is getting larger as more people feel comfortable being out. Therefore, there’s more of something for everyone. Still, not just anyone is for everyone.

Love who you love , don’t worry about what others think.

Depends on age group

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