Single 🐠 from where do you get your emotional support? There is a constant void I feel and not family and friends support isn’t working out / not an option.

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I enjoy my company. Rarely I rely on others or things to get support or feel better. Since I was a teenager I made sure I don’t become a slave to things or people. I practice this consciously and make sure that I am not being hurt! 🤗😊

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Often, I find it difficult being alone during difficult times at work. Having somebody in my corner supporting me is my wish.

mainly from my therapist ($100+ an hour). I think my friends are there for me, but I don’t want to feel like a burden laying all my problems on them.

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Yeah it’s super annoying but once I hit my deductible (summer) I’ll feel so much better just paying $25 a session!

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I tend to just scream into the dark empty abyss while slowly descending into madness. Hope this helps.

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Close to what I do 🤗

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My therapist

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My vodka bottles

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Therapy, meditation, self-reflection. Learning that it's ok to feel the yawning chasm - some sense that there's something larger than you, whether it be religion or community service.

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Not quite, A2 - just my lived experience.

The dog and hugging said dog.

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I’m INTJ, so mostly myself but yeah I still have childhood friends. OP never too late to make lasting connections. I saw in my city there’s an online game night. The goal is to make friends not get laid at a certain point (in general).

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If only more gays shared that goal. Everyone around me only seems to be interested in hooking up 😩

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OP I feel that so much. I’ve never been in a relationship before so I distract myself with video games and side projects and like just constantly staring into screens.

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I do get that it is absolutely unhealthy to depend completely on a partner for emotional support but gd it would be nice to have one tho

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If you really feel this way, and you want to make a difference in your life, at least give meditation a serious effort. Practice daily.

Therapist. Gym. Travel.

I wish. I'm not a morning person, so I go in the evening right after work.

DM if you are comfortable. Can have some light hearted conversation! I’m out of your friends and family so this may help!

Same here! Virtual therapy helps and a good routine helps as well, including daily exercise. Happy to also connect/chat

Self indulgence plus semi frequent meditation, exercise and therapy. For example, treat myself to a very nice meal a few times a week, solo trips every month or so (pre-pandemic), movie or reading nights

Friends ideally but I’m not single

I used to depends on my friends and vice versa....family was never an option. But as I said...it's give and take and this was back when I was in school/college/ broke....I would suggest if you can afford therapy that would be a great option.

You have to motivate yourself no one can make you happy. You have to make yourself happy ❤️

Therapy. New friends. Myself. Nature. My foster dogs. Creative pursuits.

OP I feel this so much. I had a talk with a friend about this awhile ago and they were able to share some facts with me that brought a little awareness to me. idk if you can relate to it but I’ll share this photo. Looks like it’s only letting me post one photo but if you ever want to talk more about this, my DMs are open

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