I’ve been single for about two months after a 3-year relationship and a part of me is dying to get back out there, but I also feel like people would say it’s way too soon. Am I crazy for just wanting to move on with my life or is there some obligation I have to wait a certain amount of time...

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If you're feeling ready, get back out there! You may start dating again and wonder why you didn't get out there sooner or maybe realize you're actually not ready. Who's to say?

Personally, after a crazy 1.5yr situationship, I took a few months for reflection and intention setting. I was not trying to make that mistake again 🫣

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You're not crazy at all. There’s no universal timeline for moving on, only what feels right for you. If you’re ready to put yourself back out there, go for it. People will always have opinions, but they’re not the ones living your life. Just make sure it’s about what you want, not what you think you should do.

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If you feel like you’re ready for it… I say go for it!

You can move on whenever you’re ready. You never heard of the thing that says that you ended the relationship halfway through it or something like it takes that long like if you were in a relationship for 10 years that relationship was really over in five and you spent the last five trying to get over it and whatever else is left.

There is no obligation to wait a certain amount of time. Your timeline is your own and nobody knows when you are ready except you. People love to say its too soon but they don't know your situation or your feelings. At the end of the day you have to do what is best for you.

If you feel ready to move on, do exactly that! I am proud that yours are so strong. Good for you! LIVE LOVE LAUGH

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