Just curious, for the bridal party, did you pay for the bridesmaids hair and makeup? As well as their dresses?

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I paid for hair and makeup (around 350 pp) but not dresses (which were around 150 and they could get whatever style they wanted)

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Yes they paid for all of those things for themselves. And every wedding I have been to we had to pay for all that on our own as well. I think its pretty much the norm for the bridesmaids to pay for these things on their own.

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it’s customary to do so. I am planning to

I paid for dresses and bridemaids makeup. I only have two.

I paid for hair & makeup but not dresses (they were free to pick the style, we just all agreed on a colour). I think it's fair for you to do whatever you can as long as you're upfront about it! I had a really honest convo at the start of planning about what I could / couldn't cover and it was shower helpful to get everyone on the same page.

Yes for all

I offered to and only paid for one person's hair and makeup. I had a small group and they bought whatever dress they wanted (it could have written their own).

Yes for all. They had to pay for alterations and any jewelry/shies etc.

No, it is way too expensive for me to cover those costs. Plus, every wedding I have been in I have always had to purchase my own dress, shoes, makeup, hair, cover part of the bachelorette party (or all of the costs of the bachelorette bachelor party for my brothers wedding) and shower costs…. The cost of having friends close enough that you’re in their wedding is getting more and more out of hand

Not the dresses, but did hair snd make-up. I know people who offered hair and makeup if the girls paid, but most make you commit to a number when you hirer them, so consider that.

Paid for hair and makeup. I only had 2 bridesmaids and they were very close cousins. I also bought them earrings to wear on wedding day

Paid for hair and makeup but not dresses. They got to pick the style they wanted and they were all $90-$99.

I’ve been in wedding where the bride paid for either hair or make up or neither. Personally I was fine with that as long as were free to do it ourselves. I think if the bride wants a pro to do it, the bride should pay for it

i’m covering hair and makeup , their dresses are on them. but my bridesmaids will be in a black dress of their choice and i am not expecting them to buy a new one if they already have one they like and want to wear

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