Made a mistake in a new area of practice I have no experience with. It’s a stupid mistake, but also definitely one I should NOT have made. Not likely to have any ultimate effect whatsoever but I’m absolutely spiraling out of guilt and shame. How do I recover? I’m not a baby lawyer either I’ve been doing this 8 years

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Are you human or a robot? Everybody and I mean everybody makes mistakes.

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As others have said, take ownership of it, fix it, lean from it, implement process to not make this this type of mistake, then move on. We all make mistakes. It’s how you handle it that really matters.

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Fix it and learn from it.

It’s called practice for a reason!

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Fix it, move on, and never speak of it again. Folks are making mistakes everywhere, but most of them no one sees. Once folks notice, just do your best to make them forget.

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Well, do you want to waste time feeling sorry for yourself? Or do you want to spend that time putting practices in place to prevent the error from re-occurring?

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Remember that lawyers are human too. Learn to let go of the shame. You are not the first nor the last. Lawyers are not perfect - we are fabulous though!

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So are legal assistants and paralegals!

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It happens to everyone. You’re human. It’s ok to let it go, especially if you don’t think it’s going to have any ultimate effect.

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