Managing people isn’t for everyone, and I think we don’t talk enough about when it’s time to walk away. Maybe you’re burned out, maybe you miss individual contributor work, or maybe leadership just isn’t where you thrive. Have you ever stepped away from management? What made you realize it was time, and do you regret it?

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I almost did step completely away from management and swore it off forever. But I actually just needed a change in company. Not everywhere is run the same way. That being said though, if you do not like the fundamentals of it in a perfect environment, you’ll probably always struggle to some degree with if you should do it or not.

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