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If it was him in your shoes, would he have asked? If no, then you obviously did the right thing :))
Can you just inform him as well?
Do not listen to anyone's advice , please solve these issues between husband and wife sitting inside a room.
Public opinion might support your argument, but eventually it would lead to major fights in future.
And since you both are financially independent, it can lead to the cause of your separations with your husband.
Please sit with him, discuss things, maybe you cannot spend a huge amount but definitely he should understand your points as well.
Do not take public opinion 🙏
Still, I will advise her to solve these issues by sitting next to him rather than getting public opinion.
There are times when people do get frustrated with other works, and they shout somewhere on different things.
The level of approach should be:
1. Husband and wife : life is long and both need to respect their opinions.
If you don't get any solutions, then
2. Husband's mother/father and wife (ghar ki bahu)
They would have some great advice based on their experience.
Then
3. They both have their families, since both families have some understanding and they have fixed their marriage to spend their whole life together.
They can advise both with some great points.
Public opinion is nothing just another frustrated log or maybe different people with different perspectives to look at life , who has nothing to do with their marriage as well as their life,
If any mishap would happen, no one can suffer only they and their families would have to pay a price for that.
Hence, it should be a family matter at last. Thank
You should spend more.... period
You should definitely take your partner's permission.. But more than that he should give you that 'permission' and contribute something to it.. it's not your money or his money it's your money.. and it's sibling, I personally would support my girl even if it's a cousin and my Bae wants to do that..
Just a guy's perspective.. also first statement was sarcasm in case someone does not understand..
Sarcasm tha.. I think this is not the place for it given half of the people don't understand s of sarcasm..
It’s not wrong if ur sister also spends the same amount on you
It’s ur money you can take decisions about it but he is also ur husband he also wants u to understand how duniya dari runs and also just put it in a manner like we use to advice our father to not spend on chacha or tayaji😂
He is seeing it in a same way
You have all the right to spend money on your siblings. Given your income, it is not disproportionate to spend 1L on your siblings wedding. Come onnnnn
I would say boomerang the question at him by placing his sibling in the situation.
Problem is he is not having sister, so he never respects women's and never understands their problems
I think, you guys need to have a discussion around finances. When both parties are earning, the old ways of managing households change.
You should definitely discuss what your joint family budget and goals are, and how you both contribute towards those.
But over and above, I think you should be okay to spend on your extended family. Good you mentioned to your partner, as you should be able to share your things - but Ghar ko apne hisab se thoda set karo if this is happening.
Koi housewives thode hein hum, jo husband ke diye hue "pocket money" ko spend kar rahe hein. Ye purani baato aur falto advice me mat pado - you work towards how you want your family life to look like!
When you started I thought some sensible girl is putting her point. But sadly a selfish feminist talking rubbish. Atleast talk about your partner pov or atleast listen to it. Entire from top to bottom just talking about yourself. Bhai. Matlb itna bewkoof koi kaise ho skta h.
Is he also asking you before spending money on his parents or siblings? Is this money coming from combine pool?
Also it is your money too you can spend on such a once in a while kind of event.
You don't need permission, just inform him and that's it.
It is not. And if he stops you, this is a serious matter.
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