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Now add in the snail pace partner waiting for you to succeed so he can take your money and send to his family while barking whenever you spend a dime on yourself or your family as though he made the money.
If possible, find a partner as motivated or at least who can hold his own. If married already, keep a joint and a separate account so you don't feel taken advantage of.
Yes, being with an unmotivated partner does weigh you down but you can figure out ways to make it work.
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Indeed! The more I vent, the more I realize that I am not alone! I have set up a separate checking and savings, so I can spoil myself, even though he keeps barking.
@OP, it's FRUSTRATING! Especially so when they willingly choose to not put in more effort but keep checking in to see your progress and asking for this and that. You're definitely not alone.
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Thank you! It's hard to stay motivated with a drag-shute.