Ok, for some reason I am having a lot of nice single guys that are my type in my orbit. And yes, I know some of these dudes can just be friends, but I wouldn’t mind dating any of them honestly as they check my green flags.

But, what do I ask to figure out if they are gay or not?

My previous attempts were too blunt and straight forward, which was “Hey! You gay?”

Hi sharks/fishes,

C. CTC - 11.3 (including 90k sure shot variable)
YOE - almost 5 Yrs
Tech stack - SAP ABAP on HANA

I have few offers. Max i have is 18LPA. Had technical interview done with Deloitte. next week there going to be HR Round. What should be the E.CTC? For senior engineer level in SAP practice, what's the max budget they usually have? Please drop your valuable advices.

Thanks.

Does anyone know various third party agencies that do Nike specific recruiting? Been trying to break in and feels so tough without some kind of “in”

People can be terminated for requesting Work from home option due to health issues? Please share the inputs and if anyone know about the legal terms.Thank you.

Currently controller for a $120M PE backed company. Interviewing for a Director of Accounting role for a $1B PE backed company. Would be almost fully remote. Probably around 30-40% salary increase ($40k+). Currently have equity that would cash in upon a change of ownership in about 2 years (likely worth upwards of $200k). Change of industry from restaurant to CPG. Thoughts?

Hi
I am having 4 years of experience in mainframe technologies in the banking domain. I want to work abroad in Canada/UK/Ireland. How do I acquire a job there??

Ps.:- There is no onsite opportunity provided by my current organization.

Hi everyone
I recently got offer from TCS for 10 LPA and my current CTC is 7LPA with 2.5 years of experience. Am I being underpaid here?

Currently not ADD but I do have severe narcolepsy with cataplexy. Everyday I wake up feeling like I haven’t slept 3 days. Cataplexy is sudden loss of muscle tone. Currently on Adderall for it and have been for 5 years. Without it and my ven. I collapse 10-20 times a day. My doctor has left the practice and replacement asshole with a Ph.d says I need a new sleep study and won’t prescribe my prescription until I have it done. I am Covid pos and now can’t get in to get a sleep study. Am I fucked?

Any idea on the salary band for Senior Consultant (Manager) at EY Parthenon London?

Has anybody switched from MBB to a boutique firm? Looking for better WLB and a focus on healthcare/life sciences. Any firms I should look into? (Pre-MBA/entry level)

Having an animal friend with cancer is not something easy. This year I have already had 24 animals that went to sleep in order to stop suffering. This is not easy for their families at all. It seems to me that the cancer stats in domestic animals are increasing, is this just me?

How far do you require depts be with negotiating commercial contract terms before your legal review? I’m talking routine low value and risk contracts (e.g., vendor services), where Legal terms won’t kill the deal. My clients blindly forward contracts. I say “are you sure this term is ok?” And often get “no.” They’re surprised because they never read them. Checking the temp to see what others experience, what might be normal. I feel contract training in my clients’ future...

In general I am proud to work at PwC and with Leadership. But every now and then there is a big miss or blind spots Looking at recent Leadership changes one has to wonder how a first year partner ends up running Strategy, Mkting and Comm's for a 9B firm?

Although the market is open and lot of lateral hiring is going on.. Can see that 10+ years experience professionals in SAP FICO domian are not getting much calls & invites from the companies..

How do you all set better boundaries? I find myself working weekends to catch up and stay on top of things and it’s not even busy season. I am burning myself out quickly and I don’t know why I just don’t stop. Can anyone relate?

I am 3 weeks away from my last working day and not getting any interview calls even after updating at various job portals. What could be the reason? I am 7+ years of work experience in software testing. Please help.

What are your favorite personal finance books? I just read Rich Habits and really liked it. I am also reading the Psychology of Money. Looking to read some more!

How do I keep my sanity? Weekly massages. Expensive? A little? Worth it? Absolutely.

Can someone refer me in MNC or bank in noida? I had done MBA in finance and banking.

Has anyone ever been in a mostly platonic relationship? I don’t like to label myself much, but I don’t really like intimacy and don’t really like romance. Some people would say I’m asexual/aromantic, but unless that too is a spectrum, I don’t think I fit squarely into that group. As I get older, I’m realizing I’m feeling very lonely. It would be nice to find someone, but have it be platonic (any gender/sex). It’s weird, I know. It’s hard to articulate as well. Can anyone relate? 😭😭

Holidays can be tough for our community - I hope everyone is able to find some moments of self-care and happiness today!

Well 😒 accidentally gave up my rose on hinge to the wrong dude. Was saving it for “the one.” Now this guy keeps texting me. He seems okay - I figure I should prob at least do a coffee date. (Or, Maybe a make out session and some heavy petting in the corner at starbucks? Is that still a thing for first coffee dates?) Will also wear the cologne im buying this weekend! I don’t know how long it takes for my rose to grow back on the app.

Are poppers bad? Are they frying our brains? Post your thots below

Any fish in SF

What’s up DC?

I recently joined Grindr……. 😵‍💫

Does anyone have experience or advice on being a stepdad? My bf has a 6 year old (whom I adore) and I want to be as good a stepdad as I can be without overstepping any boundaries. Any advice is welcome!

Why are some people not into feet?

There’s this guy at work I really like. We’re really really good friends but I’ve caught feels since the day I met him and I just want to tell him how I feel but I don’t want to ruin our great friendship. He’s the closest friend I have.

How’s it like being gay in Singapore?

Any ladies at DU this week?

Any suggestions on where to travel (within US) for Labor Day? May be taking a solo trip.

I know this is very stereotypical to ask here, but did anyone watch the latest episode of White Lotus? DM me! My friends are watching it tomorrow and I need to get my thoughts out!!!!!

How many of you are in an interracial relationship? And what are yours and your partner's ethnicities?Just wanted to do a quick poll :)

Almost midnight here and I'm cleaning my medicine cabinet so I can reboot having a regular skin-care routine. I'm listening to one of my favorite musicals, "Ragtime", specifically the song "He Wanted to Say". Living 9 time zones away from home out of the US and watching the BLM movement there, unable to do anything concrete about it from here - this song I've listened to countless times, today about brought me to tears.

I really don’t mean this to virtue signal - just wanted to share a moment.

I grew up in a nuclear family away from extended relatives who were never really close. Parents were either emotionally unavailable or distant. All I've wanted for myself was a big loving family to call my own.. my parents are unaccepting of my sexuality & my partners family is also quite fucked up so she's isn't super close to them either. Honestly this sucks & it feels like I'll never have a huge supportive family I've wanted & craved for.