Question. In interviews, should you NOT mention you are a mother. I’m getting mixed advice.

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I ALWAYS mention that I am a mom and fit in I’m in a same sex marriage. Don’t want to end up somewhere not supportive of either.

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I’ve learned to always mention it - helps filter out places I would never want to work. And yes, I’ve definitely lost opportunities over it.

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Nope! Don’t mention it.

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I have the same opinion as CD above. I would mention it as I don’t want to work somewhere that doesn’t value the fact that I have a family.

I don’t mention it until I’m pretty far along in the process. I personally have trouble separating who I am as a human and who I am as a worker. I’m stronger when I don’t compartmentalize.

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