Taking a sick day feels like a moral failure at my firm. I woke up with a brutal stomach flu, but instead of focusing on resting, I spent two hours in bed sweating through my sheets while drafting apology emails for missing a routine internal status meeting. We are humans, not machines. Does your office actually let you be sick?

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I haven’t taken a real sick day in a long time, but I can definitely take it easy and WFH when sick. I have 3 toddlers at home and we get hit with viruses nonstop from preschool so I can pretty much play it by ear when sick. If I need to cancel meetings to rest it isn’t usually an issue.

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That’s not normal. And your succumbing to it doesn’t help. It’s up to you to advocate for yourself, just like you do your clients. If you’re sick, then keep the notice short and simple and go focus on feeling better. They will respect you more for it and if not, GTFO of that firm :)

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What the heck…

This sounds like a you problem. Set some boundaries.

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